@Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world
2026-11-01 22:25 UTC
Don’t get me wrong, I would do similar. Though I think I would have a min of like 30 so the person is mentally mature, and not trying to drag me out to parties.
The 20 somethings can have each other.
30 to 45 women go with the older men,
30 to 45 men go with the cougars.
The older men die off before the women turn into Cougars. Or they just stop caring about women in that way. So the women can then have the energetic men they want.
Everybody wins.
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@nomy@lemmy.zip 2026-11-02 00:26
they just stop caring about women in that way. From conversations with the older men I’ve known throughout life, I don’t think that happens for everyone. Maybe sporadically as life events come and go but even the actual old guys I’ve known (80yr olds) were still interested in romantic (and sexual) relationships; maybe more interested than someone in their 30s is.